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How long have you been placing children from the country I am considering?
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Are you licensed/accredited in the country I am considering? (If you don’t know if required, check the country charts listed under adoption)
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How many children did you place from this country last year? The year before?
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How many children of the age and general health I am looking for did you place last year? The year before?
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How many regions within the country do you work in? Or, how many baby homes or orphanages within the country do you work in. (This question is not applicable to China and some other countries.)
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Do you have someone on staff that is fluent in the language of the country?
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How are the children cared for in the country prior to adoption?
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If foster care, do foster parents receive any training and oversight?
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What are the conditions in the orphanages? How many children per caregiver?
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Does someone from your agency personally visit the orphanages from which you place children? (This is not allowed in all countries) If not, how are you informed about the quality of care?
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If birth mothers are identified, what services are provided to the birth mother? Counseling?
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Do you have staff in the country I am considering? Do you have subcontractors?
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Do you use facilitators? What services does the facilitator provide? How often do you communicate with the facilitator? How much supervision do you provide? Is the facilitator paid a fee for services or paid on a contingency basis for child referred or adoption completed? How long have you been using this facilitator? What are the names of the in-country facilitators? (not all agencies reveal the names)
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What humanitarian services do you provide in this country?
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How are children identified for adoption?
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What is the average length of time for a referral of the age, gender and health of the child we are seeking? What is the longest you have experienced within the last year?
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What happens if we decline a referral that is offered? How soon can we expect to get another referral?
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What is the average length of time after referral before I would likely travel to pick up my child? What is the longest you have experienced within the last year?
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If this is a two-trip country, what’s the average length of time between trips? What is the longest you have experienced within the last year?
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What was the average length of time families were in country last year? What was the longest you have experienced recently?
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If we decline a referral once we are in the country, what happens? What are the chances of getting another referral while we are in country that meets our requirements? (This only applies to certain countries, see country charts)
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How often do you send dossiers (collection of documents fulfilling the governmental requirements for adoption) to the country? Once a week? Once a month? (This is only applicable to certain countries, such as China)
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What has been your experience with placing children from this country with parents who have been treated for depression or alcoholism or who have an arrest record?
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What is the total estimated cost of adopting from this country? (not just fees paid to the agency, but what is the total out of pocket expenses families have paid at the end of the adoption)
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If cash payments are required in country, do you have a mechanism for transferring funds to the country rather than have parents carry large amounts of cash?
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What state or states are you licensed in?
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How long have you been in business?
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How many full time staff do you have? How many part time staff or subcontractors?
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How long has the staff been with the agency? Ask specific to the program you will be using.
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If it is a very small organization, what are the plans if one of the key personnel is unavailable for a period of time?
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How do you communicate with prospective adoptive parents?
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What are your office hours?
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Whom would we contact when we have questions? Will one person be assigned to us? How many cases/clients does this person handle?
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Do you have a policy to return phone calls within a set period of time? How long should I expect to wait for a reply from an email or phone message?
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Are you seeking or do you have Hague Treaty accreditation or approval?
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Do you have restrictions on age, marital status, gender selection, religion, or family size that are not part of the country’s requirements. (Keep in mind that this is not necessarily a bad thing, but if you are excluded because of an agency imposed restriction you want to know that up front so you can choose a different agency or country.)
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How much medical, social, and psychological information will we receive on the child? Can additional information be obtained? What steps do you usually take to get additional information?
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Do you encourage families to get an independent review of the medical records and pictures or videos (if available) by a pediatrician or an international adoption medical specialist?
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How long do we have to decide on a referral? (You need at least a week or until you get a response from an international adoption medicine specialist.)
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Do you ask clients to sign an Internet Confidentiality Agreement?
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What is your refund policy at different stages in the process?
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What is your policy on virtual twinning (adopting two unrelated children at the same time)? (if applicable)
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What is your policy on continuing infertility treatments while pursuing an adoption? What is your policy if we become pregnant? (If applicable.)
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Have you ever been disciplined or sanctioned by a government or legal entity?
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How many of your placements in the last three years have fallen apart either before or after the adoption was finalized? (This statistic is one indication of how well an agency prepares families for adoption.)