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	<title>Creating a Family &#187; * Adoption</title>
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	<description>I talk about adoption, infertility, adoptive parenting, and plain old parenting.</description>
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		<title>Internet Roundup: Best of the Net for Infertility and Adoption</title>
		<link>http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/adoption-domestic-adoption-international-adoption-embryo-adoption-foster-care-adoption/internet-roundup-net-infertility-adoption-3/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 20:45:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dawn</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[* Adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[* Infertility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoption disruption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[birth father]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[birthfather]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional impact of infertility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[failed infertility treatment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[FAS]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[FASD]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[infertility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[open adoption]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Gather round my friends and check out what&#8217;s caught my attention lately on the wonderful world wide web in the areas of adoption and infertility. Share your favorite finds in the comment section. What music do you put on when you need to get motivated, uplifted, or just plain want to feel better. I loved [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gather round my friends and check out what&#8217;s caught my attention lately on the wonderful world wide web in the areas of adoption and infertility. Share your favorite finds in the comment section.</p>
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<li>What music do you put on when you need to get motivated, uplifted, or just plain want to feel better. I loved this <a title="psychological impact of infertility" href="http://wombwarrior.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">blog </a>by The Womb Warrior with the music video for Florence + The &#8230; [<a href="http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/adoption-domestic-adoption-international-adoption-embryo-adoption-foster-care-adoption/internet-roundup-net-infertility-adoption-3/">visit site to read more</a>]<br />
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		<title>Hearing the Message Behind the Anger</title>
		<link>http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/adoption-domestic-adoption-international-adoption-embryo-adoption-foster-care-adoption/hearing-message-anger/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 14:20:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dawn</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[* Adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Adoptive Parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting after infertility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adult adoptee]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[multiracial adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[multiracial families]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[psychological impact of adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[The Primal Wound]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[trans-racial adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[transracial adoption]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I’ve been contemplating lately on how in the world we reached this place of animosity between some of the adult adoptee community and some of the adoptive parent community. .  Now, in truth, I don’t actually think it is all that bad in general. I know plenty of adults who were adopted, we all do, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I’ve been contemplating lately on how in the world we reached this place of animosity between some of the adult adoptee community and some of the adoptive parent community. .  Now, in truth, I don’t actually think it is all that bad in general. I know plenty of adults who were adopted, we all do, and most are supporters of the institution of adoption, although plenty would like to see some changes.  But the internet is a whole other world!</p>
<p>I don’t know if it’s the virtual anonymity &#8230; [<a href="http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/adoption-domestic-adoption-international-adoption-embryo-adoption-foster-care-adoption/hearing-message-anger/">visit site to read more</a>]</p>
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		<title>Calling all Korean Adoptee &amp; Adoptive Families, and Gen&#8217;l Supporters of Adoption</title>
		<link>http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/adoption-domestic-adoption-international-adoption-embryo-adoption-foster-care-adoption/calling-korean-adoptee-adoptive-families/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 17:19:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dawn</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[* Adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Adoptive Parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adopting from Korea]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[international adoptions from Korea]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[South Korean adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[special need adoptions]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[A few months ago I posted a blog (OK, let’s be honest here&#8211; it was more screed than blog) about the situation with Korean international adoptions. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A few months ago I posted a <a title="Korean Adoption" href="http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/adoption-domestic-adoption-international-adoption-embryo-adoption-foster-care-adoption/south-korean-adoptions-canary-international-adoption/" target="_blank">blog</a> (OK, let’s be honest here&#8211; it was more screed than blog) about the situation with Korean international adoptions. <a ... [<a href="http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/adoption-domestic-adoption-international-adoption-embryo-adoption-foster-care-adoption/calling-korean-adoptee-adoptive-families/">visit site to read more</a>]</p>
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		<title>What Happened to the Boy Sent Back to Russia by His Adoptive Mom</title>
		<link>http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/adoption-domestic-adoption-international-adoption-embryo-adoption-foster-care-adoption/happened-boy-russia-adoptive-mom/</link>
		<comments>http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/adoption-domestic-adoption-international-adoption-embryo-adoption-foster-care-adoption/happened-boy-russia-adoptive-mom/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 14:05:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dawn</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[* Adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[General Musings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[child sent back to Russia]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Nancy Hansen]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Torry Hansen]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m sure you all remember Torry Hansen, the American adoptive mother who sent her 7 year old son back to Russia alone on a plane with a note pinned to his shirt that he had problems and she no longer wanted to parent him. Her US adoption agency, WACAP, and the National Council for Adoption [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m sure you all remember Torry Hansen, the American adoptive mother who <a href="http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/adoption-domestic-adoption-international-adoption-embryo-adoption-foster-care-adoption/damaged-good-return-receipt-requested/" target="_blank">sent her 7 year old son back to Russia</a> alone on a plane with a note pinned to his shirt that he had problems and she no longer wanted to parent him. Her US adoption agency, WACAP, and the National Council for Adoption have both filed &#8230; [<a href="http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/adoption-domestic-adoption-international-adoption-embryo-adoption-foster-care-adoption/happened-boy-russia-adoptive-mom/">visit site to read more</a>]</p>
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		<title>Internet Roundup: Best of the Net for Infertility and Adoption</title>
		<link>http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/adoption-domestic-adoption-international-adoption-embryo-adoption-foster-care-adoption/internet-roundup-net-infertility-adoption-2/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 17:03:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dawn</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[* Adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[* Infertility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adopting from Korea]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[embryo guality]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gender selection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[how to parent adopted children]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[IVF]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Korean adoption video]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[older child adoption]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[&#160; Week&#8217;s Best Pic: I Told You to Stop Throwing Your Duck or You&#8217;d Get Time-Out I know, I know, borderline inappropriate, but didn&#8217;t it make you &#8230; [visit site to read more]]]></description>
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<li> Week&#8217;s Best Pic: I Told You to Stop Throwing Your Duck or You&#8217;d Get Time-Out</li>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/time-out.bmp"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1174" title="time out" src="http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/time-out.bmp" alt="" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">I know, I know, borderline inappropriate, but didn&#8217;t it make you &#8230; [<a href="http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/adoption-domestic-adoption-international-adoption-embryo-adoption-foster-care-adoption/internet-roundup-net-infertility-adoption-2/">visit site to read more</a>]</p>
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		<title>Book Review of the Adoption Memoir &#8220;Found&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/adoption-domestic-adoption-international-adoption-embryo-adoption-foster-care-adoption/book-review-adoption-memoir/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jan 2012 20:58:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dawn</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[* Adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoption memoir]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Jennifer Lauck]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[The Primal Wound]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I love the idea of an online community book club, especially an online community that shares the same interest, albeit from different angles.  I jumped at the chance to participate in this discussion of Jennifer Lauck’s memoir Found. Since a lot of you that will be reading this are my regular blog readers rather than [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love the idea of an online community book club, especially an online community that shares the same interest, albeit from different angles.  I jumped at the chance to participate in this discussion of Jennifer Lauck’s memoir <em>Found</em>. Since a lot of you that will be reading this are my regular blog readers rather than book tour participants, a bit of explaining and a short summary of the book is in order.  The Book Club participants are divided into three groups, each posting a blog &#8230; [<a href="http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/adoption-domestic-adoption-international-adoption-embryo-adoption-foster-care-adoption/book-review-adoption-memoir/">visit site to read more</a>]</p>
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		<title>Internet Roundup: Best of the Net in Infertility and Adoption</title>
		<link>http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/adoption-domestic-adoption-international-adoption-embryo-adoption-foster-care-adoption/internet-roundup-net-infertility-adoption/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2012 19:37:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dawn</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[* Adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[* Infertility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adopting from Russia]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attachment issues with adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[embryo donation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[foster care adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[miscarriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[recurrent pregnancy loss]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Russian adoption]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[This is what I&#8217;ve been reading this week online. What about you? Please post your own Best of the Net in Infertility and Adoption in the comments so the rest of us can read. Feel free to post your own blogs as well. The Devastation of Pregnancy Loss: A Profile of Courtney Cheng This is [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is what I&#8217;ve been reading this week online. What about you? Please post your own Best of the Net in Infertility and Adoption in the comments so the rest of us can read. Feel free to post your own blogs as well.</p>
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<li><a href="http://jjiraffe.wordpress.com/2012/01/04/the-devastation-of-pregnancy-loss-a-profile-of-courtney-cheng/" target="_blank">The Devastation of Pregnancy Loss: A Profile of Courtney      Cheng </a>This is one of the best things I’ve read in the last few weeks      &#8230; [<a href="http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/adoption-domestic-adoption-international-adoption-embryo-adoption-foster-care-adoption/internet-roundup-net-infertility-adoption/">visit site to read more</a>]<br />
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		<title>The Primal Wound</title>
		<link>http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/adoption-domestic-adoption-international-adoption-embryo-adoption-foster-care-adoption/primal-wound/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 19:42:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dawn</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[* Adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Adoptive Parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting after infertility]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever had that experience where all of a sudden one idea or thing keeps popping up in your life? When this happens, I try to pay attention. Lately I seem to be inundated with the people talking about the “primal wound” theory— the idea that “severing the connection between the infant and biological [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever had that experience where all of a sudden one idea or thing keeps popping up in your life?  When this happens, I try to pay attention.  Lately I seem to be inundated with the people talking about the “<a href="http://www.terrylarimore.com/PrimalWound.html">primal wound” theory</a>— the idea that “severing the connection between the infant and biological mother [through adoption] causes a primal wound which often manifests in a sense of loss (depression), basic mistrust &#8230; [<a href="http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/adoption-domestic-adoption-international-adoption-embryo-adoption-foster-care-adoption/primal-wound/">visit site to read more</a>]</p>
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		<title>Internet Roundup: Best of the Net for Adoption and Infertility</title>
		<link>http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/adoption-domestic-adoption-international-adoption-embryo-adoption-foster-care-adoption/internet-roundup-net-adoption-infertility-2/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Dec 2011 16:25:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dawn</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[* Adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[* Infertility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adoptive parents]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[infertility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[infertility affect marriage]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Now for the &#8220;real&#8221; internet roundup: This may be one of the best essays I&#8217;ve ever read about the impact of infertility on a marriage.   In]]></description>
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<p>Now for the &#8220;real&#8221; internet roundup:</p>
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<li>This may be one of the best essays I&#8217;ve ever read about the impact of infertility on a marriage.   In <a ... [<a href="http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/adoption-domestic-adoption-international-adoption-embryo-adoption-foster-care-adoption/internet-roundup-net-adoption-infertility-2/">visit site to read more</a>]<br />
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		<title>Adoption Tax Credit: Look Back at 2011, Look Forward to 2012</title>
		<link>http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/adoption-domestic-adoption-international-adoption-embryo-adoption-foster-care-adoption/adoption-tax-credit-2011-2012/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Dec 2011 17:36:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dawn</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[* Adoption]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[December is the time of year for reflecting on what went right and wrong in the last 12 months and looking to the future for what the coming year will bring. In honor of this week’s Creating a Family show and to answer the hundreds of emails we get on this subject, I thought we’d [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>December is the time of year for reflecting on what went right and wrong in the last 12 months and looking to the future for what the coming year will bring. In honor of this week’s Creating a Family show and to answer the hundreds of emails we get on this subject, I thought we’d take a look at the past and future of the adoption tax credit.</p>
<p>The Government Accounting Office (GAO) has made our look back fairly easy with their recent report on how the IRS has handled this credit for taxes &#8230; [<a href="http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/adoption-domestic-adoption-international-adoption-embryo-adoption-foster-care-adoption/adoption-tax-credit-2011-2012/">visit site to read more</a>]</p>
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